Don’t Cause Others to Stumble: Romans 14

Read Romans Chapter 14

Introduction: Romans 14 speaks to the heart of Christian liberty and love. Paul encourages the  Romans to accept one another despite differences in personal convictions about unnecessary  practices, things like dietary customs and observance of special days. He points out that our actions should not cause others to stumble and that the Kingdom of God is about righteousness, peace, and joy in the Holy Spirit. In this chapter we see the call to live a life of love, staying clear of judgment of others, and doing what builds up the community of believers.

I. Respect for Differing Opinions on Disputable Matters (Romans 14:1-4)
Paul advises the strong to welcome those weak in faith without arguing over opinions. He points out that some believe in eating anything, while others eat only vegetables. Some think one day more sacred than others, while some consider every day alike. Each person must be convinced in their own mind. We should not judge or despise others because God has accepted them, and He is capable of making them stand firm in faith. In 1 Corinthians 8:9, the Bible says be careful that the exercise of your rights does not become a stumbling block to the weak, in other words, don’t cause others to stumble due to your freedom. And Colossians 2:16 tells us, do not let anyone judge you by what you eat or drink, or with regard to a religious festival, teaching us to not judge others for their practices. Also in James 4:12,, the Bible tells us there is only one Lawgiver and Judge, reminding us, that it’s not our place to judge each other.

II. Living for the Lord and Accountability to Him (Romans 14:5-12)
Individuals should do what they believe honors the Lord, whether it’s observing a day or eating certain foods, because we all live and die for the Lord. We will all stand before the judgment seat of Christ and give an account of ourselves to Him. Therefore, we should not pass judgment on one another for any reason. We are personally accountable to God, not to our fellow man as the Bible tells us in Galatians 2:20.  And 2 Corinthians 5:10 tells us, we must all appear before the judgment seat of Christ, personally accountability to God, not to man. When we stand before God, we will stand alone, what anyone else thinks really won’t matter. Jesus speaks of the detrimental impact of passing judgement on others, knowing that each of us will stand in his presence – Matthew 7:1 – Do not judge, or you too will be judged.

III. Pursuit of Peace and Mutual Edification (Romans 14:13-23)
The chapter ends with Paul’s advice not to put a stumbling block in another’s path. The Kingdom of God is not about food and drink but righteousness, peace, and joy in the Holy Spirit. We should promote what leads to peace and mutual edification. If your brother or sister is distressed because of what you eat, you are no longer acting in love. Everything that does not come from faith is sin. 1 Corinthians 10:31-32 teaches us, whatever you do, do it all for the glory of God, without causing others to stumble, pursue what is beneficial for others as well as yourself. Live peaceable with others is what Hebrews 12:14 teaches us, don’t strive with others about what the do, instead teach in love. And finally in 1 Thessalonians 5:11, the Bible teaches us to encourage one another and build each other up, instead of tearing down.

Conclusion: Romans 14 reminds believers, that our freedom in Christ comes with a responsibility to love and not cause others to stumble. It calls us to respect others’ convictions in even the unnecessary matters, live accountable to God, and build a community that prioritizes righteousness, peace, and joy. As believers, we are to be representatives of unity, not division, displaying the love of Christ in our actions and attitudes. By following the teaching laid out in this chapter, we become a living testament to the life changing power of the Gospel, and we will bring honor to the the Lord in everything we do.