Prayers That Touch God’s Heart

Sermon Outline Title: Prayer in the Center of God’s Will


Text, Theme, Big Idea
Bible Text: 1 Chronicles 4:9-10
Theme: The Faith and Favor of Jabez
Big Idea: God honors the prayers of those who walk in humility, obedience, and integrity.


I. The Man Named Jabez (1 Chronicles 4:9-10)
a. The Bible only gives us two verses about Jabez out of 31,102—but they reveal a powerful truth about prayer and faith.
b. His name means sorrow, yet his life became a testimony of blessing. God can take sorrow and turn it into joy.
c. Jabez was not remembered for wealth, fame, or position—but for a simple, sincere prayer that changed his life.
d. What God did for Jabez, He can do for any believer who walks humbly in His will.

II. The Meaning Behind His Name
a. His mother named him Jabez—“because I bore him in sorrow.” His very name carried the weight of pain.
b. In Bible times, a name represented a person’s character and destiny—his name suggested a life of trouble and grief.
c. Yet God had other plans. The sorrow that was meant to define him became the foundation of his faith.
d. Pain and hardship can either make us bitter or make us better—Jabez chose to let his hardship draw him closer to God.
e. Application: Don’t curse the sorrows that shaped you; they may be the very tools God used to prepare you for blessing.

III. Jabez Was More Honorable Than His Brothers
a. Scripture says, “Jabez was more honorable than his brothers.” That word honorable means worthy of respect and integrity.
b. His life reflected obedience, humility, and consistency—he lived what he believed.
c. A man or woman of integrity will always attract the favor of God and the respect of others.
d. The Lord delights in those who walk uprightly—Psalm 37:23 says, “The steps of a good man are ordered by the Lord.”
e. Application: We need men and women like Jabez—truth tellers, promise keepers, and prayer warriors whose lives touch heaven and shake hell.

IV. The Prayer That Changed His Life (1 Chronicles 4:10)
a. Jabez prayed, “Oh that You would bless me indeed.” This wasn’t a selfish request—it was a faith-filled plea for God’s best.
b. He asked God to “enlarge my border,” meaning: Lord, increase my influence, give me a place to serve, and expand my purpose.
c. He prayed, “Let Your hand be with me,” asking for God’s constant presence and guidance.
d. He asked, “Keep me from evil,” recognizing the power of temptation and the need for divine protection.
e. And the Bible says, “God granted him that which he requested.” The prayer was heard—and answered—because his heart was right with God.

V. The Power of a Righteous Life in Prayer
a. God listens closely to those whose lives reflect His will. The righteous walk in favor, the proud walk in frustration.
b. James 4:3 reminds us: “You ask and receive not, because you ask amiss.” Selfish motives hinder answered prayer.
c. When we live in the center of God’s will, our desires begin to align with His desires—and our prayers are answered accordingly.
d. God honors purity of heart, humility of spirit, and faith that acts upon His Word.
e. The prayer of faith is not manipulation—it is cooperation with the will of God.

VI. Lessons from Jabez’s Example
a. Be bold — Jabez prayed big, because he knew he served a big God.
b. Be humble — His request was not prideful; it was dependent upon God’s goodness.
c. Be consistent — He lived honorably and walked faithfully long before he prayed.
d. Be surrendered — He let God decide the “how” and “when” of the answer.
e. Be thankful — God blesses those who give Him the glory after the blessing comes.


Illustration / Example
Jabez’s life is like a seed planted in poor soil that grew into a mighty tree because of God’s rain and sunlight.
Many people start with disadvantages—pain, poverty, or hardship—but faith and integrity can bring divine favor.
Like Jabez, you can rise above the label life has given you and live under the blessing of God’s hand.


Alliterated Main Points

  1. Sorrow – His name began in pain.

  2. Spirit – He lived with integrity.

  3. Supplication – He prayed in faith.

  4. Strength – He asked for God’s hand.

  5. Safety – He trusted God’s protection.

  6. Success – God granted his request.


Conclusion / Invitation
If we desire revival in our homes, our churches, and our land, we must become people of integrity like Jabez.
When honorable men and women pray with a pure heart, heaven moves and hell trembles.
Jabez didn’t pray to impress anyone—he prayed to touch the heart of God.
May we live and pray in such a way that the Lord can say of us, “I granted their request.”